Most people are looking for love. A partner to share their dreams as well as the rest of their lives with. For most men, finding the right woman is the biggest hurdle and that is why most men wait for so long before they finally tie the knot. If you are in the same situation, here are the three best places to meet and talk to new women. Goodluck!

1.  Nerds:

Most people do not believe that the library is a good place to meet women because it is a place of study. I beg to differ! Infact I think it is one of the best places if not the best place to meet new women. Why? There are so many answers to this question and I will answer a few. It is an open secret that women are attracted to smart people. Although most men may not know this, women would choose a smart guy over a muscular dunderhead. Shocked? No need to be! Now the reason why the library is a very good place to meet new women is that, being in the library creates a certain perception about you immediately. Even better if you are in a pair of glasses too. With the smart guy aura around you, ladies will easily warm up to you and are more likely to participate in any conversation you start. You don’t have to be smart, just look and act it and you will make a few new friends in the library. You are most likely to meet nerdy girls at the library because hey, who goes to the library these days when we have Google right? But nerdy girls are some of the coolest girls if you get to know them. I know a few and to be honest, they are crazy!!

2. “Chrife”:

Hallelujah!!! Another place to meet new women in Ghana and basically anywhere else in the world is the house of the Lord. Don’t get me wrong, I am not telling you to go to church to look for women. All I am saying is, it is easier to meet new women in church. The church since time immemorial is recognized as a place of worship and also a place of bonding between members of the congregation. The good book teaches about love for one another and where else to practice this than the house of the Lord. I don’t know what church you attend but for most of the churches I have been to, you are always welcomed with a smile and the ladies are eager to make you feel at home. If you are shy and find it difficult to approach women, the church is your sure bet to making new lady friends. The general perception is that women in church are boring and overly spiritual. True! But the new age Christians are changing the dynamic and they are much more fun and easy going than before. While you are in church, look out for the choristers and the ushers…*wink*

3. Bridesmaids:

Boy meets girl, they fall in love, they get married and live happily ever after. This is what wedding ceremonies print in our minds whenever we attend them. Weddings create an atmosphere of bliss and euphoria as two individuals come together in holy matrimony. It is in this heightened state of joy that women become most vulnerable and approachable. The joy of seeing a friend get married, paints a picture of how her future could be and at that moment is more open to new friendships and relationships that would make her distant dream a reality. Women are suckers for weddings and that is why you should take advantage of the occasion and meet some new women. I attended a wedding recently and I observed that the women were overly nice and easy to talk to. Even the “too known” ones were dancing and chatting heartily with new people. It is not magic, it is just the pure joy that weddings bring out of people. It is said that some women come to weddings to get hitched. As to how true that is, your guess is as good as mine. So if you are looking to settle down, a good place to go is a wedding ceremony. It is also a good place to meet new business partners, flings and even one night stands if you are adventurous enough.